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Game & Format

Red Flag, Green Flag

Each course, someone reads a scenario — "perfect, except they post fifteen Instagram stories a day." The table votes red, yellow, or green and then argues about it. Built for singles and the chronically opinionated; a structured way to find out what your friends actually tolerate.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
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PurposeFind out what your friends actually tolerate — as opposed to what they claim to tolerate — via a game that removes th…
VoteLive hand vote on each scenario, then the minority position defends itself.
RevealThe host reads back the most surprising splits at the end — the scenarios where the table was most divided.
Run of show

What it's for

Find out what your friends actually tolerate — as opposed to what they claim to tolerate — via a game that removes the social filter.

The guest's job

Vote red, yellow, or green on each scenario without caucusing first; the surprise is in the split.

The vote

Live hand vote on each scenario, then the minority position defends itself.

The reveal

The host reads back the most surprising splits at the end — the scenarios where the table was most divided.

Food & drink spine

Easy courses the host paces to the game; each new dish arrives with a new scenario.

Conversation fuel

"What’s the red flag you’ve been calling a quirk?"

How it flops — steer around it

A homogeneous table that agrees on everything. Works best with a genuinely mixed room or a carefully crafted scenario list.

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