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The theme library

Themes worth
dressing up for

Browsable party concepts, each with a built-in vote and just enough effort to start a conversation. Start with what the night is for, then narrow by who's coming, size, season, and effort.

IntentStart with what the night is for.
FitMatch the idea to the room, season, and effort.
MomentPick a format with a reveal or debate built in.

5 of 66 themes match

Game & Format

Yearbook Awards

The table votes superlatives and reveals them through the night — most likely to become president, to start a cult by accident, to get arrested overseas, to disappear and live on a farm. A featherweight format that turns the whole group into the joke. Photos guaranteed.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
Conversation

The Compliment Dinner

At random intervals through the meal, everyone anonymously writes one genuine, specific good thing about another guest. At the end, each person gets their stack. It sounds cheesy and it routinely becomes the part of the night people remember for years.

Close friends Medium group Any season Low effort
Conversation

Roast & Toast

For a birthday, engagement, promotion, or send-off. Each guest delivers one roast and one sincere toast about the guest of honor — the structure keeps it warm and stops it tipping into pure heckling. The two-part format is the whole trick.

Close friends Medium group Any season Low effort
Game & Format

The Threshold Dinner

A dinner that takes the first five minutes seriously. A drink pressed into every hand at the door, a clear "here’s what we’re doing tonight," one small act each guest does on arrival. The opening tells people how to be in the room; design it, and the awkward threshold moment never happens.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Game & Format

The Rematch

Re-run a night you’ve done before and watch what changed. Pull last season’s blind-tasting bracket, the old superlatives, the ranking everyone fought over — and play it again with a year of life in between. The revisit is its own kind of party, and the archive is the trophy.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort Recurring
A bespoke dinner-party concierge. Vote with conviction; bring something defensible. Themes · Playbook