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The theme library

Themes worth
dressing up for

Browsable party concepts, each with a built-in vote and just enough effort to start a conversation. Start with what the night is for, then narrow by who's coming, size, season, and effort.

IntentStart with what the night is for.
FitMatch the idea to the room, season, and effort.
MomentPick a format with a reveal or debate built in.

17 of 66 themes match

Food & Cooking

Trader Joe's Roulette

Everyone brings one Trader Joe's item under $15, blind to a category drawn on arrival — appetizer, dessert, wine, or wild card. Plate it all, taste it all, vote for the best find. The cheapest thing usually wins, and that's the joke.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Food & Cooking

Charcuterie Draft

Run it like a fantasy draft: each guest is assigned a slot — cheese, cured meat, carb, pickle/spread, wild card — and brings one excellent thing for it. Assemble one obscene board together. Chaos, but coordinated chaos.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Cocktails

Build-Your-Own Bar

Each guest is assigned a layer — base spirit, citrus, mixer, garnish, or ice/glassware — and the bar is whatever shows up. People invent cocktails from the collective haul. Vote for the best build of the night.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Conversation

Hometown Heroes

Everyone brings a dish or drink from where they grew up and tells the two-minute story behind it. The most personal, least competitive theme — though there can still be a quiet vote for the dish people most want the recipe for.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Dress-up

Hometown Night

Dress like where you’re from — the high-school mascot, the local uniform, the regional cliche you secretly love. Bring a snack or drink that says home. Vote for the most committed representation of a zip code. Just enough effort to start a dozen conversations.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
Game & Format

The Traitors Dinner

Borrowed straight from the show. Secret assignments split the table into Traitors and Faithfuls; hidden clues and small missions run between courses, with an elimination at each. The Faithfuls hunt the Traitors before dessert. Works best with a crowd — eight to fourteen.

Friends+ Large group Any season Medium effort
Game & Format

Dinner Party Olympics

Split into teams and compete all night — trivia, blind tasting, charades, a cocktail round, a debate. Track the score on a board everyone can see. The winning team earns a supremely silly title to defend at the next one. The competition is the glue.

Anyone Large group Any season Medium effort Recurring
Conversation

Guess the Guest

Before dinner everyone submits a weird talent, a wild experience, or an improbable fact — lived in Taiwan, met a head of state, turned down a six-figure offer. The host reads them one at a time and the table guesses whose is whose. The fastest way to find out you barely know your friends.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
Game & Format

Secret Mission Dinner

Everyone draws a hidden objective on arrival — get three people to mention their hometown, use one odd word ten times, convince someone pigeons are government drones. Pursue it quietly all night; at the end, everyone guesses everyone’s mission. A game layered invisibly under a normal dinner.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
Conversation

Teach Us Something

Every guest gets five minutes to teach the table one thing they’re irrationally good at or obsessed with — sabering champagne, poker math, how mortgages work, why Formula 1 matters, the fall of Rome. A TED-talk format that produces shockingly good conversation and zero small talk.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
Conversation

Passport Dinner

Each guest draws a country at random and must bring four things for it — a drink, a snack, a fact, and a conversation topic. Instant variety, zero menu coordination, and a built-in two-minute story per person. The lazy host’s around-the-world night.

Anyone Medium group Any season Medium effort
Game & Format

Family Feud Dinner

Before the night, survey a wider circle of friends — best first-date spot, worst wedding trend, most overrated luxury purchase. At dinner, the table competes to guess the most popular answers. A little prep, a lot of payoff, and a format everyone already knows the rules to.

Anyone Medium group Any season Medium effort
Conversation

The Matchmaker Dinner

Guests quietly answer questions about hobbies, travel style, and temperament. The group then votes the pairings — who’d be best friends, who should start a company, who’d survive a desert island together. Half party game, half social experiment; reveal the answers at the end.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Medium effort
Conversation

Judge My Taste

Everyone anonymously submits their favorite movie, song, restaurant, and best purchase under $100. The host reads each set and the table guesses who it belongs to. A fast, revealing window into people you thought you had figured out.

Friends+ Medium group Any season Low effort
Game & Format

Murder Mystery + Wine

Character cards, secret objectives, and clues dropped between courses — with an assigned wine alongside every piece of evidence.

Anyone Large group Any season Medium effort
Wine & Tasting

Around the World Dinner

Seven courses, seven countries, a two-minute narrated pour before each one. Light education, global range, and a built-in story for every plate.

Anyone Medium group Any season Medium effort
Conversation

Bring a Stranger

Every guest brings one person the rest of the table has never met — with a one-line "why this person." New combinations make the best conversations; a room of an established friend group defaults to inside jokes. A hosted container builds trust between strangers faster than any bar or app.

Anyone Medium group Any season Low effort
A bespoke dinner-party concierge. Vote with conviction; bring something defensible. Themes · Playbook